Sally Mears concludes her account of the Clipper Adventure. Undertaking such an adventurous yachting race is clearly not for the faint hearted! Hear about some of the conditions that she and her fellow team mates endured whilst aboard "Singapore" as she relates what it is like to be one of 16 people confined to a spartan 68' racing yacht. This interesting story is underpinned by some useful insights into getting along with your fellow man.
Today's Key Points:
- Deal with issues as they arise, by engaging in respectful, direct, open and honest talking.
- Think about how your behaviour impacts on others. If necessary, alter your behaviour. Acting without thinking may lead to misunderstandings which can be avoided by forethought.
- Focus on common ground to strengthen your relationships, by working together towards the same end.
- Tell someone if they have upset you and let them know what you would like them to do differently another time. People have to be aware of what they have done and how it has affected you before they can change their behaviour.
- Nip things in the bud. Harbouring grudges is harmful to your health and your relationships!
- Don't let personal issues get in the way.
In summary, be honest and open in your communication with the people in your life.
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I love the title of this entry...."Honesty's the best policy." I keep finding that the more people try to avoid fights...they tend to "keep out" information or lie. Basically it makes the relationship hurt more and more. I honor this policy and feel this is such a healthy part of relationships. Keep up the good work!
Posted by: Jennine estes | September 23, 2008 at 08:08 PM